Friday, February 4, 2011
Good morning and Happy Friday, my loves!! Today's SOTD is a real party joint. Since it's Friday, I felt it was warranted to post something fun. The song is 'Dance Like A Freak' by DJ Class and Fatman Scoop.
In the song, DJ Class is talking about a woman that is a lady in the streets, has her whole life going on, but dances like a freak at the club. Not only do I know chicks like this, but can admit that I am one myself at times. I feel like this. I work hard, so why not play just as hard when the opportunity presents itsself?
Y'all enjoy and have a fabulous weekend!!
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Greetings and salutations, my loves!! Today's SOTD is 'Too Little, Too Late' by JoJo (@jojoistheway on Twitter btw). I've been a fan of hers from jump, and this song is one of my tops by her. I'm dedicating this one today to my sister.
In the song, JoJo is telling her dude that he had a chance to do it right, but he waited too long to make things right. The reason I'm sending it out to my sister is because she's in a similar situation right now. Her and her man of 10 years are breaking up because he's not about a got damn thing and she finally has had enough of his nothing ass. The thing is, he's begging and pleading and caking (aka spending money on her for those not familiar with the term) her to get her to stay, saying he'll change and all this bullshit. But, I'm proud to say she is standing her ground.
At some point, we all reach our fuckery limit. And like R. Kelly said, 'when a woman's fed up, no matter how you beg, there ain't nothin you can do about it.' Fellas, if your woman comes to you time after time after time saying what she needs and you just blow her off, or even worse, fake it til she shuts up, you're gonna find yourself with your dick in your hand. Not in a Lorena Bobbit type of way or anything, unless she's crazy and REALLY gets tired of your bullshit lol.
Point is, take care of home. Listen to what your partner is asking of you. If you can't give them what they need, have some balls about yourself and be honest. Otherwise, you're gonna be sitting there alone wondering where it all went wrong.
Con Amor (With Love),
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Hello lovers! I received a HOT short story from one of my Facebook friends named A. Frost that I had to share with you. I won't waste a whokle bunch of time on the intro. The story is called 'Intimate Affair'. Grab some coffee and settle in. Thanks Alicia for the great addition to the blog!! :)
Good morning my loves (and the rest of you lol)! Today's SOTD is 'Only Girl In The World' by Rihanna. Now, I've never been a big Rihanna fan, but her latest albu 'Loud' has had a few tracks I'm actually into, this being one of them.
I picked this track for today because, just like the title and lyrics imply, I want the person I'm with to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world, 'the only girl that you'll ever love' and all that jazz. What woman doesn't want to feel that way? Don't worry, I'll wait............
When the one we want makes us feel like we're all that matters, we women will walk thru Hell in gasoline drawers to make them happy. All we ask is the same in return. Makes us feel as special and important as you want to feel. Show us that you love, want, need, and adore us. I'm not saying worship the ground we walk on or anything (unless that's the way you are. In that case, do what you do.), because that's a lot to ask from anyone. All we want is to feel confident in your feelings for us.
I know that there are some guys that are a little emotionally retarded and aren't big, or able in some cases, to effectively express their emotions in words. Hey, that's just the nature of the beast, ladies. No matter how hard we try to mold them, their DNA is what the hell it is. So, we gotta find ways to get what we want out of them emotionally sometimes without making them feel all feminine and shit. But fellas, throw a sista a bone every now and then. You might not be the mushy words type, and that's fine, but show your love in some way. Otherwise, you're gonna find yourself....well, by yourself.
So, on behalf of all the ladies, I ask the fellas to make the girl in your life, whether she's your girlfriend, best friend, or whatever, feel like she is the only girl in the world that matters. I promise the benefits far outweigh the discomfort lol.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Good morning, my loves! Today's SOTD is ;You've Changed' by Keyshia Cole. Those of you that are my friends on Facebook know that I do a SOTD just about every day, so I figured I'd start posting it on my blog as well. I'm getting back into my groove slowly but surely.
Anyway, today's pick is a song that's always been dear to my heart. Not to say I'm a huge K.C. fan, but her first album is definitely one of my faves. This song has always made me think about the people in my life, whether it's a romantic relationship or otherwise. If you think about the premise of the song, it makes sense.
In the song, Keyshia's saying how the guy she's engaged to got some money and totally flipped the script, started acting different and neglecting her, so she had to bounce. How many of us have been in that same position with a person? You love them dearly, romantically or platonically, would do and have done everything to make things work, but they get ahead in some way and start acting brand the fuck new? And when I say 'get ahead', it doesn't have to be monetarily. Sometimes, folks start running in a new circle or get a little popular for whatever reason and they begin to think their shit doesn't stink.
Or, sometimes, folks grow and become people that you never imagined they would. That's the part that's always hard for me to accept. I mean, I know that people grow and change and all that, but when you change in such a way that it makes you unrecognizable to those that have been closest to you, that's a problem. What makes it worse is when people make these drastic changes and then expect you to tolerate the fuckery. Well, I'm not the one for that shit believe that. If you become someone I don't know or like, fuck I look like dealing with it?!
I have a friend that I've known since high school. We're still cool, but they've become someone that Ifind myself wanting to punch in the face from time to time. Not because I don't love them, because when I say this person means the world to me, I mean it, but becauseI just can't deal with some of teh bullshit they do. They've become a person that is so emotionally detached, it's like talking to a brick wall sometimes, you know? They went thru some stuff, just like the rest of us, but they chose to turn their heart to stone rather than accept what happened and take the lesson. Now, to get them to admit how they feel about anything deeper than a song on the radio is like pulling teeth. Of course, I know everyone isn't as open emotionally as I am, but damn, you can't be a statue expecting warmth from others to give you life, you know? That shit blows my life because this person could have love like they've never experienced before if they would just get the fuck over the hurts from the past and open their heart.
Well anyway, rant over lol. Let me get this poem finished so I can post that next. I hope y'all have a great one and remember: While you may feel change is an unavoidable part of life, know you have control over the extremity of the changes you make to yourself and your surroundings.
Con Todo De Mi Corazon (With All My Heart),
Monday, January 31, 2011
The look in your eyes lets me know
That the time for talking’s passed.
We both know what the deal is.
No questions need to be asked.
You know you want me
And I know I want you.
We’re both here now.
Just say what I know you wanna do.
Your arms feel so good around me
It’s making me a little weak.
My body’s telling you everything
I can’t find the words to speak.
With every kiss I feel myself
Losing more and more control.
You’re kissing me like you’re
Trying to steal my soul.
The way you’re touching me
Is quickly making me lose it.
All this pre-game is cool,
But I’m ready for the main event.
I know you’re used to running the show,
Women that just lay back and take it.
Well, that’s about to change, love.
Let a bad girl show you how a real woman does it.
C’mon baby, let me give you
What we both know you need.
I know you’ve heard that before,
But I’m the one to believe.
Clothes are flying everywhere,
The room’s getting hotter by the minute.
If it’s feeling this good now, I can
Only imagine how it’ll feel when you’re in it.
There’s a four alarm blaze going in here
And you’re just adding fuel to the flames.
Neither of us it calling 9-1-1,
Just each other’s names.
I’ve heard you talk about other bitches,
But those bitches don’t matter.
They might be hot and shit
But we both know I’m hotter.
As you lay there I’m hoping,
My secrets won’t get out.
Keep this on the hush.
I’m not one to share my inner thoughts.
-Toni D. Cabrera 2011